The Meaning of Love

Love is a beautiful thing that we all want. Everyone always wants to have someone who they desire to chime in one love.
Unfortunately, many are difficult to make the opposite sex fall in love. For men in particular, this is the hardest hit because Men are required to have the initiative to initiate steps to make the opposite sex fall in love.
There is a secret about the process of falling in love that if you understand, you can be more effective to make the Women's Fall In Love to you.
LouAnne Brizendine, an expert on mental nerve more than 20 years studying brain circuits, said:
"Love is one of the Irrational behavior brain. The brain becomes * Not Logical * Literally Blind and will be the deficiencies of the Beloved. "
Helen Fisher, a scientist researching neurological romance and love on brain function, said:
"Love is the most terrible sensation around the world. People around the world would fall in love, they think for the sake of love, they dance for love, they talk about love, they live for love, they kill for love, and they die for love. "
Two sample sentence above brings us to one conclusion, love is very beautiful and blinding love The Lover shortcomings.
If a woman Love to you, all you whatever shortcomings it will not be seen by him. She'll love you with really.
Love is basically a form of strong emotion or feeling, which, according to Helen Fisher when the activities described are 3 parts in the human brain and the mixing of four chemicals in the brain that is: Dopamine, Seretonin, Estrogen and Testosterone THAT produces 3 Emotions that if combined would make one Falling in Love. Emotions are interested, Comfort, and Inner Relations.
In other words:
Interested Comfortable Inner = Fall In Love Relationships
Interested mean INTERESTED her to enter into the guy's life interesting.
Convenient means the woman BELIEVE to Open yourself to the man.
Inner relationship means a woman indifferent to the inner attachment to the man.
If one of the three components of the LOST, then love will not be formed. Let's see what will happen if we remove one of these components.
Interested in Comfort (without Inner Relations) = Ordinary Friend
This is what often happens, the woman was interested in and comfortable, but the man did not build a deeper inner connection to be able to make the women feel the bitter-bitter love to be able to fall in love. Be their friends.
Interested Inner Relationship (but not comfortable) = Fans While
It is also common. The Men and Women INTERESTED each other and feel a deep inner connection. But unfortunately the man DIRECT feel too confident to declare his love without making the woman COMFORTABLE and BELIEVE to get to know him more closely. The woman with the automatic will feel uncomfortable that eventually backed away from man.
Comfortable Inner Relationship (but not Interested) = Brother / Sister
Now that is funny: The Women are very comfortable and has a strong inner connection, but the woman HAS NOT Attracted by the man to become her lover. At the moment, the man declared his love, then the lady would say that they are better suited to be brother / sister only.
Therefore, the three blend emotion is vital to make a woman fall in love.
Once you know the FORMULA in love, you need to know how to make women INTERESTED, WITH INNER COMFORTABLE and have with you.

Set the Purpose of Life

Written by: Anne Ahira
My Friends,
"Without goals, and plans to reach Them, you areThat sail like a ship with no destination "-
                               (Fritzhugh Dodson)
That is the metaphor for people who have no purpose in life.
Many people done the role, but do not know  the way of  life that wants as its target.  
They realize their live is what is then done.
When something bad happens, they will argue fate did not favor him.
Not infrequently a person realize the purpose life in old age. Very unfortunate indeed.
Often people do not dare to make changesin his life. He just waited, and waited The changes ... until the end goal of his life is not achieved!
Actually, it does not matter if we have to changepurpose in life several times. The most important thing isevery time we have a purpose in life you wantachieved.
Actually, it does not matter if we have to changepurpose in life several times. The most important thing isevery time we have a purpose in life you wantachieved.
At least we know where we're going to run andwhat strategy should be taken.
4 Ways You Can Use To DefinePurpose of Life:
1. What exactly is your desire?

    Ask your conscience, what exactly
    Your desire for the next few years?

    Nothing wrong with your dream. You
    do not be ashamed to admit it, after all, not
    There is no charge should you spend to
    just dreaming. ;-)
2. Gather information.

    By collecting information, you
    can more easily achieve the desired goals.

    If there are other people who've managed to do
    you want, learn from them.
    Do what they do!
3. Do not be silent.

    Do something and that will continuously
    takes you to the dream life you want!
4. Upgrade your skill

    If there are ways that you do prove effective
    and closer to the goal to be achieved,
    then it would be nice if you're trying to
    improve the capability and increased speed
    performance for the purpose of your life more quickly achieved.
If all four of the above you do on an ongoingcontinuously without tired and bored, Insya-Allah you will obtain the desired life goals.
You are supposing is a 'sculptor' top picture of your own life. And a good sculptor will always have a 'planning' in advance to get the results best.
In this case, you could only be as big and as happy as your destinationspecify. Therefore, chisel yourself the best!

My Blog is My Money Field

My blog is my money field. Off Course, is the money is yours? Or your blog is the field of my money? : Lol: * confused it .. no idea:?::!:
Well, whatever it is, this paper is still unfinished. Wait on the game yes. Want to sleep first: oops: have you read and practice READY!!!!......

My Blog is my Money Field
Ok, as I promised  1 month ago (what?!!) That this paper will be updated. The latest version is not far from the topic around my blog is my money field. You could have laughed at that argument. But, this is true. I am not a player MLM (Multi Level Marketing). I'm just a blogger who tries to seek sustenance through the media that called BLOG.
There are several things you should look in an effort to make your blog as a money field. Among them:
1.You should have a blog (yes off course .. are you should have fields?: Lol:) 
2.After have a blog, be diligent to update the content or writing. Try not to copy-paste round of the article. Make it as unique as possible and have a specific topic. 
3. Look  to other blogs that match your interests. Leave a comment there; an appropriate and courteous manner. Do not forget to fill out the form with the address of your blog's URL. 
4.For getting the idea of writing, you can look at Free Articles Directory. 
5.Registered your blog to Google Webmaster Tools. 
6.Submit to bookmarking sites like Digg,  etc.

What are six steps above can guarantee your blog will be a field of money? Not yet buddy. Nothing is instant in this world (with the exception of instant noodles: P). You should develop your blog first. 6 ways above is a knowledge base to develop the blog and will gradually bring in visitors.
Having considered (usually marked by the increasing number of visitors, the blog has been lookups by google etc). You can go to the next stage. Namely:
1.Focus 
2.Focus 
3.Focus
4. And Focus....
See The point? The point is, you should focus on the content  of your blog. Actually, the problem is not too jumbled. However, it would be better if you specify one of the main topics for your blog. We take the example, you select the topic of Business Online or on the procedure to get dollars through the internet.
So? Well, if you discuss is about how to get dollars in the online world, of course you will write how or producing programs of dollars on your blog. Right? Most of the programs on the internet, whether it's pay per click, paid review, sell links, paid to click, etc., they usually provide the affiliate or referral. Referral means, you will earn a profit if it invites others to join in the program you follow.
You also can play pay per click. The most famous, of course Google Adsense. There are many programs that you can actually follow and share. If I personally encourage you to learn and read the Adsense forum-ID. At the forum, you will find lots of tips and tricks regarding the procedure to make my blog is my money field.

    One thing is for sure, no dozing term money. You have to work and learn and pray to change your blog into a money field.

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Tricks to Maximize Your Revenue From PTC Site

In addition to the primary key of seriousness and discipline that you take a few minutes a day. Maybe some of the following tricks will help to increase your income.
Often Try to log in every day to log into the website program you follow, because there are some ads that are only valid for one day only, and do not miss even a single penny that you do not pick up in one day. It all depends on you, because it should be noted that there is no obligation to log in every day.
Joined many PTC programs at once While waiting period of 30 seconds to see the ad page provided by PTC, you can open a page of other ads from other PTC programs. If you can open from 5 PTC for 5 pages at once in one time why must open them one by one. Is not it also saves you time, but remember not to want to open because of the many programs at one time, ended up making slow your connection, which actually will make you lose a lot of time because lemotnya connection.
Use Browser beta To facilitate open PTC 5 pages at once, the authors suggest to use the browser's beta version, where you can open multiple pages in just a windows only. You can use Mozilla firefox, opera and google chrome as well as your browsing software.
Find Downline / referral As the author lay out just now that referrals have big share in your success in PTC. Each time you register on PTC sites must get a referral URL links and command that your friends or anyone to join this program by signing up through your referral link. Promote via email, mailing lists, forums, IM and of course you can write it on your blog.  

The most effective way to get a referral is to write an article about this program on your blog so that people will register from the link posted on your blog. You can also buy referrals on PTC sites if you have money and lazy to seek referrals manually. But of course it will take some of your money. But no problem if you can smile after seeing the results. Is not for success requires sacrifice.
Upgrade your account function of this upgrade is to make you a premium member is where you will get a lot of ads in one day and in every click commission also found more than a regular member.

HOW TO EARN MONET FROM PTC SITES

PTC sites are one of the major sources of revenue for people who earn money from Internet. PTC in full mean “Paid to Click”. PTC sites are sites that provide money for clicking Ads. Generally the money which these sites pay are from 0.02$ to 0.005$. But if you browse through the web, there are many people who earn hundreds of dollars a month using these sites. Many will be surprised how these people earn money just by clicking four or 5 Ads per day. This article provides information of how these people earn money from PTC sites like Neobux.

Getting Started with PTC sites

To get started with earning money from PTC sites, one should know that what ever you see in Internet is not true. There are hundreds of spam sites in Web which just take your time and don’t even pay a penny. So just wasting time in those sites is like wasting your time in Internet. There are only some few genuine sites in internet like Neobux, Onbux, ViewbestAds that pay. But it is not necessary that these will be paying always and may close any time. There is no control over these sites. They may disappear any time. So there should be some careful planning and thinking that should be thought before joining these sites.

Identifying the trusted PTC sites

Identify the best PTC sites that are in Internet. This is very difficult to find out if you are fresher in Web. Learn from the people who have already experienced them. Don’t believe in ads or banners. You can believe the payment proofs from paypal where you can see users do upload to their sites. Some of the genuine PTC sites are Neobux, Viewbestads which is an Indian PTC etc. We have shared a few in the site Money Trials where you can check them out.

Check the Minimum Payout

Check the minimum payout of these PTC sites and how they pay. Some sites pay through paypal, some pay through alertpay. An ideal PTC site is a site which pays minimum payout of 2 to 3$. Neobux has minimum payout as 3$.Similar are Buxjunction and Onbux. Join these sites as these sites have good number of reviews.

Think before Upgrading in PTC sites

Many people earn money from PTC sites only through referrals. The more are the referrals, the more is your chance to earn money. There are two types of referral system in PTC sites. They are

• Rented Referrals
• Direct Referrals

Rented Referrals are provided by site owner itself. According to my analysis, renting referrals without upgrading and with less number of direct referrals is useless. If you have good number of direct referrals, then think of rented referrals in PTC sites as they generate good revenue for you. Also while hiring rented referrals see who actually click ads. Some rented referrals never work.
Direct Referrals are people who joined under you with your referral link. If you are a good leader and have people who are ready to learn from you, then you can have a good number of followers. Having more direct referrals gives more chances of earning from PTC sites

Earning from PTC sites

Earning from PTC sites is not an easy task. These sites can be closed any time and you may lose your time and money. But people still believe in some genuine PTC sites like Neobux which are there from years. There are hundreds of people who have upgraded in Neobux. Upgrading in PTC sites is nothing but getting more money from referral clicking, from your ad clicking etc.

Sample Chain for PTC sites

Here is a sample way how PTC sites work for you
Suppose you have 20 direct referrals under you, see below how much you earn per month. Suppose the site pays 0.01$ per click
Per Day
You click  5 ads  ———– You earn 0.05$ from your clicks
Your friends 20*5              You earn 1$ from them
————————————————————————–
Total Earnings per day               1.05$ (this is only for 20 friends. Think if you have 200 direct referrals)
————————————————————————–
This is how people earn money from PTC sites. Start using PTC sites like Neobux wisely and earn good money

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What is Neobux?

What is PTC ?

PTC (Paid To Click) is where you get paid just by clicking (see) the ad, which payment will be sent directly to your account.

What is Neobux? 

Neobux is one of the advertising service site (PTC) that was established in 2008, in which all the "clickers" have recognized that Neobux is the best PTC site in the world today among other PTC sites.Neobux allows advertisers to reach thousands of potential customers by displaying their ad, which will be paid by Neobux member by clicking (see) this ad for a predetermined amount of time (30 seconds). And payment will be credited with a predetermined amount of cash to members on Neobux account.You do not have to pay (free) to become a member Neobux and start earning money. So, LIST NOW and get free money through the site Neobux.

How exactly do I get paid?There are several types of membership which the member would be paid:
Standard Member: 

Per click: $ 0010 (Per referral click: $ 0005)- the standard ads 

Per click: $ 0015 (Per referral click: $ 0010) - an extended ad
Golden Member: 

Per click: $ 0010 (Per referral click: $ 0010)- the standard ads 

Per click: $ 0020 (Per referral click: $ 0020) - an extended ad

Neobux also has a classified advertisement in which the member Neobux will be paid $ 0005 for every click (no commissions from referral clicks).

Minimum Payout:The minimum amount the first payment request is $ 2, the minimum demand for the second payment is $ 3, the third is $ 4 and so on up to $ 10.This means that when the member reaches or exceeds this limit, the member may request payment.

The amount of time to process the payment:INSTANT - This means that after a member asked for payment, the member will receive it in just seconds DIRECT (without waiting for a long time) the money will be sent to the member account in accordance with the type of processor such member account.

So, Come and Join on Neobux

 
Below is my proof of payment for joining with Neobux (up to date):

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A New Way to Achieve All Your Dreams

Name something you want. It can be a weight-loss goal, a money goal, a sales quota, a new house, a relationship, etc. It's entirely up to you.
Since this book is about money, think about your money goals. How much more money are your seeking, anyway? A hundred dollars? Thousands? A million?
Now let me ask you a blunt question: Why don't you have it yet?
Why don't you have the thinner body, or more money, or whatever it is you said you wanted? Well?
Now let me tell you something shocking: The fault isn't with the economy, your parents, your spouse, your neighbors, your mayor, the president or anyone or anything outside of you. There is only one answer to my question of, "Why don't you have it yet?" And I'll tell you what it is in a minute.
Have you ever wondered why so many people have so much trouble getting what they truly want? Have you considered that there could be an easier way though life? Have you ever felt that life was just too much of a struggle? Most of us have, at one time or another, just felt that life was a royal pain. But the liberating truth is this - life doesn't have to be that way.
What's the secret to making life a joy? What's the secret to creating more money now? And what's the answer to why you haven't achieved your goals yet?
It's in your own mind.
No, not in your thoughts. Not in your conscious mind. The roadblock is deeper. It's where you rarely look. It's in your unconscious. In short, if there is something you are trying to achieve - you name it - and you aren't achieving it, chances are your unconscious holds some contradictory intentions for you. Said another way, you want something and it doesn't.
If you are typical, you are constantly giving yourself contradictory instructions - like "I want to lose weight" and "I want that luscious piece of pie." Notice anything odd about them?
Those statements are going in different directions. After years of such frustrating and contradictory messages, your unconscious gives up and starts to disregard what you consciously want.
In other words, you canceled out your own request. You said, "I want money," but right after that you said (or thought), "I don't deserve it" or "Money never comes to me" or some other similar limiting belief. As a result, you usually didn't get what you said you wanted!
But I have good news for you. All that is about to end.
An Introduction To Cybernetic Transposition
I define "Cybernetic Transposition" as: Putting yourself consciously in charge by creating effective communication between your conscious and unconscious minds, by consciously transposing successes from any part of your life into other ones where you consciously want to produce success, resolving self-defeating unconscious habit patterns into ones that support you and by creating effective conscious communication with the part of your that knows what's right for you.
Where did I get the two words that make up the term?
Cybernetics is a term created by the incredibly brilliant Norbert Wiener who developed the discipline and who I used to see wandering the halls of MIT. Cybernetics derives from the Greek word for "steersman" or the person in control.
In a very real sense, our unconscious mind acts as our massively powerful, massively parallel computer comprised of about 100 billion tiny computers called neurons. Usually, our conscious minds are pretty much irrelevant to the functioning of our unconscious.

I'll be teaching you to change that, to bring your conscious mind into the loop so it, in a sense, becomes the steersman.
So the first part of the definition is helping people to be more human rather than acting like machines that operate almost totally unconsciously, out of conscious control.
Transposition is defined as the process of interchanging. In our case, we are taking a memory of success in one aspect of life or in the same aspect at a different time in life and transposing it to create success in a different aspect and/or time.
Now that you have been introduced to the name of the process, let's move on to discovering how to use it to manifest your highest dreams.
Ready?
Three Steps To More Cash
You're about to learn how a tried and tested three step process can transform your world and bring you all the riches you've ever imagined. I've proven this method will work by testing it on 50,000 people. Now you're going to prove it will work for you.
First, let me introduce you to the basic three steps:
1. Create a Target that defines what you want, one that is clearly understood by all aspects of your un-conscious mind.
Think of the bull's eye of an archery target with its concentric circles enclosing a central red circle. Your unconscious mind needs something as clear as that circle, a target that indicates exactly what you want.
2. Prioritize your Target: Flag it so that you will remain unconsciously focused on it while you get on with your normal activities.
Imagine a large crows of people, all dressed alike in gray. Now picture one of them holding up your highly graphic bulls' eye target with the bright red center. Chances are, the target is what will catch your eye. That's what happens in your unconscious mind when you have appropriately prioritized your target.
3. Resolve any self-defeating un-conscious habit patterns that can prevent you from achieving your target.
Your unconscious habits govern what you normally do in a situation. The most efficient way to go through life is to do a lot of things on automatic - except when those automatic habit patterns get in the way. In other words, most people have unconscious mechanisms that sabotage their desire to hit the target. When you clear those, you are free to hit the mark.
One Last Thing
You don't have to believe this is going to work. You probably have your doubts. You probably want to raise a ton of money fast but are highly suspicious that this method will work for you. Well, I've taught my seminar to 50,000 people. Even the ones who didn't believe this would work still got results.
The truth is this:
1. If you have a modest goal or target, you can use the Basic three steps we've been talking about to achieve it.
2. If you have what feels like an "Impossible" desire, you can use the Super Achievement process to achieve it.
Either way, your results are just waiting for you!

How to Create Complete & Perfect Freedom

By :  Dr. Robert Anthony

Imagine doing what you want, when you want, with whom you want, where you want, for as long as you want, without ever having to answer to anyone…

Let me ask you a question.

How would you know if you were "rich"?

That may seem like a stupid question. You would probably reply, "I would know if I was rich if I had no bills, or I had a lot of money in the bank, or had income producing investments or business, or I could buy whatever I want without having to go into debt".

What Are True Riches?

If you gave any of the above answers you would be partially correct. Most people perceive wealth or riches as the ability to be financially secure. However, true riches offer an even greater benefit than financial security A person who is truly rich knows they are truly rich when they have achieved the most valuable asset of all: PERSONAL FREEDOM!

This is true wealth -- to have complete FREEDOM to live life on YOUR terms.

Focus on What You Want to Attract

When I did not understand the principle of personal freedom, I focused on money. I wanted money, and I wanted lots of it! That was my goal. And because we get what we focus on, I attracted more money.

But then one day I realized that what I really wanted was the freedom to live life on my terms. First, it's important to know when people see how I live and conduct my business, they often say that, "It's easy for you, you earn a lot of money, you're famous, you've got a huge demand for your books, training programs, etc.” But they miss the point. I purposely designed my life this way when I had no money.

This was my dream. This was my intention.

Focus on Having Personal Freedom

Living this way is the basis of what I teach in my books, audio programs, seminars and personal counseling. What you get in life is determined by what you focus on and the actions you take.

In other words, you get the outcome of personal freedom by focusing on it and practicing it. It is both the cause and the effect or the outcome.

I choose freedom to do what I like, when I like, where I like, with whom I like in both my personal life and in my business.

For example, I do not carry a mobile phone with me unless I am traveling. When I am at home, which is ninety percent of the time, I don't carry one with me. My reasoning is that I am just not that important that I must annoy everyone who comes into contact with me by constantly and incessantly talking on the phone.

If you feel you have to carry a mobile phone with you everywhere and answer every call, you are not free -- you are a prisoner.
Create Your Life By Design

In addition to not carrying a mobile phone with me, I do not take any unscheduled phone calls. Even my personal coaching clients who pay me tens of thousands of dollars must make advance appointments to talk with me on the phone - and those calls are kept to a minimum because I prefer getting emails.

As a result, today, I work only with people I enjoy working with.
No exceptions. If I have a troublesome client, I fire them!

My Freedom Makes Me Truly Rich

I live pretty much as I choose. If I want to take a day off to go out to the races, watch the horses run and have a bet, I do. If I want to travel anywhere, I do. If I want to be with someone, dine anywhere or go when I want, whenever I want, I do.

My peace of mind and my freedom to live my life on my terms is why I am truly rich. Yet, I want to quickly emphasize, this has nothing to do with the amount of money I earn. This just helps to support my lifestyle of freedom.
But here is the point: I created this at a time when I could not afford it. I didn't wait until I had to money to do it. It was my core desire. I believe anyone can live this way if they choose. People tell me that because of their circumstances it is not possible for them to do this. I tell them "horse pucky.” You can do anything you want if you set your intention and follow through.

This is true wealth. You can have it your way regardless of what you do for a living, regardless of the business you're in, where you live, your current income, wealth or lack thereof, regardless of any variable you can possibly name. If you will deliberately get in ALIGNMENT with creating freedom, YOU - I mean: YOU - can have it!

Get in Alignment with Your Desire to be Free

Your mission - should you choose to accept it - is to get in total ALIGNMENT spiritually, mentally, emotionally, strategically and behaviorally with a lifestyle of personal freedom, so you can enjoy the results of you wealth. This is the position you want to get into, as quickly as possible.

The 5 Rules of Happiness

By : Burt Goldman

 

You know when you're happy, and certainly no one has to tell you when you're sad. But what is it that makes a person happy?

It is important to realize that what makes you happy might depress another person. There are people, because of guilt, a feeling they do not deserve what they have, or a feeling they will lose what they have that makes them unhappy when they should be happy.

Possessions are a poor measure of happiness. Possessions are subjective and relative to the individual and the individual's viewpoint. Instead, we will use a philosophy as an example.

This philosophy is about enjoying things you like, avoiding or changing things you do not like, and accepting what you cannot avoid or change by the skillful use of your viewpoint. The use of this philosophy, as embodied in the five rules, will allow you to test many problem areas in your life and find solutions. With this philosophy, you will be well on your way on your pursuit of happiness.

Rule Number One: If You Like a Thing, Enjoy It.

Now that seems outrageously simple. At first you might say, "That's ridiculous, of course if I like something I'm going to enjoy it." But when you stop to think about it you'll probably agree that there are many things in life that we like but don't enjoy. The reasons we don't enjoy things we like are (a) guilt, and (b) fear. You will not enjoy something you like if you feel guilty after having done the thing, or if you are fearful of the consequences of doing it.

Rule Number Two: If You Don't Like a Thing, Avoid It.

The second rule seems simple enough, but reflect for a moment on how many people are involved with things they do not like — a job, a person, a vehicle, a type of food, any one of a thousand things — and for some reason they don't avoid those things. "Well, I can't avoid it. I have to work there because I need the money." Or, "I have to be involved with this person for many valid reasons." How many justifications can you think of for not avoiding the things you do not like to do?

Rule Number Three: If You Don't Like a Thing, and You Cannot Avoid It, Change It.

Here again, the answer is simple: change it. But just as in avoidance we rationalize that we need something about it — the money, the time, the security — something is holding you to that particular thing if you don't like it, cannot avoid it, won't change it, but are still involved with it.

Rule Number Four: If You Don't Like a Thing, Cannot Avoid It, and Cannot or will Not Change It, Accept It.

Acceptance — now there is a catch. How can you accept something you don't like? How in the world do you accept something that is 'unacceptable'? How do you accept a situation that you're not happy with? How do you accept a person that you're not happy with? Well, you really don't have to accept anything; you can, of course, be unhappy. If you don't like it, won't change it, cannot avoid it, and will not accept it, I guarantee that you will be unhappy. There are, however, five rules to the secret of happiness, and within the fifth lies the key.

Rule Number Five: You Accept a Thing By Changing Your Attitude Towards It.

You are the result of your viewpoints and attitudes. Everything is relative to the person experiencing it. There are no absolutes — nothing is good, nothing bad, except as it relates to you. Nor is life good or bad. Life simply is. You change those things you wish by changing your viewpoint about them.

How easy!
How difficult!

Your attitudes and viewpoints are all part of your mind and once you develop the power of self mind control you will be the master of your own attitudes and viewpoints. Using these five rules you'll soon find yourself on the right path on the pursuit of happiness. You'll realize why people are unhappy. Eventually it will become automatic, and you'll find happiness a predominant state of mind. Once you realize the ease of acquiring this emotion, you develop an entirely new scale of highs and lows.

Unremitting happiness, of course, is not a possible or desirable state. According to the principle of rhythm, there is always an inflow and outflow, an ebb tide and a flood tide. You'll always have highs and lows — there's no way to avoid that. However, your highs will be higher and your lows will be higher. You'll then find that what is a happy state for you might be a state of depression for someone unaware of the Five Rules of Happiness.

Why Money Can't Buy Happiness

By : Jonah Lehrer

Money is surprisingly bad at making us happy. Once we escape the trap of poverty, levels of wealth have an extremely modest impact on levels of happiness, especially in developed countries.

Even worse, it appears that the richest nation in history -- 21st century America -- is slowly getting less pleased with life. (Or as the economists behind this recent analysis concluded: "In the United States, the [psychological] well-being of successive birth-cohorts has gradually fallen through time.")

Needless to say, this data contradicts one of the central assumptions of modern society, which is that more money equals more pleasure. That's why we work hard, fret about the stock market and save up for that expensive dinner/watch/phone/car/condo. We've been led to believe that dollars are delight in a fungible form.

But the statistical disconnect between money and happiness raises a fascinating question: Why doesn't money make us happy?

One intriguing answer comes from a new study by psychologists at the University of Liege, published in Psychological Science. The scientists explore the "experience-stretching hypothesis," an idea first proposed by Daniel Gilbert. He explains "experience-stretching" with the following anecdote:

I've played the guitar for years, and I get very little pleasure from executing an endless repetition of three-chord blues. But when I first learned to play as a teenager, I would sit upstairs in my bedroom happily strumming those three chords until my parents banged on the ceiling… Doesn't it seem reasonable to invoke the experience-stretching hypothesis and say that an experience that once brought me pleasure no longer does? A man who is given a drink of water after being lost in the Mojave Desert may at that moment rate his happiness as eight. A year later, the same drink might induce him to feel no better than a two.

What does experience-stretching have to do with money and happiness? The Liege psychologists propose that, because money allows us to enjoy the best things in life -- we can stay at expensive hotels and eat exquisite sushi and buy the nicest gadgets -- we actually decrease our ability to enjoy the mundane joys of everyday life. (Their list of such pleasures includes "sunny days, cold beers, and chocolate bars".) And since most of our joys are mundane – we can't sleep at the Ritz every night – our ability to splurge actually backfires. We try to treat ourselves, but we end up spoiling ourselves.

The study itself is straightforward. The psychologists gathered 351 adult employees of the University of Liege, from custodial staff to senior administrators, for an online survey. (I should note that it remains unclear whether happiness and other aspects of well-being can be meaningfully measured with a multiple choice test. So caveats apply.)

The scientists primed the subjects by showing them a stack of Euro bills before asking them a bunch of questions which attempted to capture their "savoring ability." Here's how the savoring test worked:

Participants are asked to imagine finishing an important task (contentment), spending a romantic weekend away (joy), or discovering an amazing waterfall while hiking (awe). Each scenario is followed by eight possible reactions, including the four savoring strategies referred to in the introduction (i.e., displaying positive emotions, staying present, anticipating or reminiscing about the event, and telling other people about the experience). Participants are required to select the response or responses that best characterize what their typical behavior in each situation would be, and receive 1 point for each savoring strategy selected.

Interestingly, the scientists found that people in the wealth condition -- they'd been primed with all those Euros – had significantly lower savoring scores. This suggests that simply looking at money makes us less interested in relishing the minor pleasures of life. Furthermore, subjects who made more money in real life -- the scientists asked all subjects for their monthly income -- scored significantly lower on the savoring test.

A subsequent experiment duplicated this effect among Canadian students, who spent less time savoring a chocolate bar after being shown a picture of Canadian dollars. The psychologists end on a bleak note:

Taken together, our findings provide evidence for the provocative notion that having access to the best things in life may actually undermine one's ability to reap enjoyment from life's small pleasures.

Our research demonstrates that a simple reminder of wealth produces the same deleterious effects as actual wealth on an individual's ability to savor, suggesting that perceived access to pleasurable experiences may be sufficient to impair everyday savoring. In other words, one need not actually visit the pyramids of Egypt or spend a week at the legendary Banff spas in Canada for one's savoring ability to be impaired—simply knowing that these peak experiences are readily available may increase one's tendency to take the small pleasures of daily life for granted.

This makes me think of the Amish. From a certain perspective, the Amish live without a lot of the stuff most of us consider essential. They don't use cars, reject the Internet, avoid the mall, and prefer a quiet permanence to hefty bank accounts. The end result, however, is a happiness boom. When asked to rate their life satisfaction on a scale of 1 to 10, the Amish are as satisfied with their lives as members of the Forbes 400.

There are, of course, many ways to explain the contentment of the Amish. (The community has strong ties, plenty of religious faith and stable families, all of which reliably correlate with high levels of well-being.) But I can't help wonder if part of their happiness is related to experience-stretching. They don't fret about getting the latest iPhone, or eating at the posh new restaurant, or buying the au courant handbag. The end result, perhaps, is that the Amish are better able to enjoy what really matters, which is all the stuff money can't buy.

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I can use a service-based Internet advertising called Neobux as described and I am currently earning $ 35.00 to $ 38.00 USD per day, Neobux pay its members for clicking ads advertisers and everybody gets a slice of the pie, the administrative cut to advertisers get traffic and people join their programs, but important, you get paid to click and instantly see the ads.

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The Art of Complimenting Woman

Ha? What is this?
The Art of Complimenting Woman?
Do not we have to "Keep VALUE" front womanwith NOT PRAISE HIM? Is not if a woman is praised,then he will be a BIG HEAD and we assumeSlut? Is not praise it the old way that is notfair and * conflicts * with the way EMOTION work?
In the book "how to win friends and influencepeople "written by Dale Carnegie said that:
"The needs and requirements of the most sought BASICmany people in her social is PRAISE "
Right? All the people WANT, FIND LOVE and PRAISE,Even people who claim to NOT want to be praised evenPRAISE hopes by saying he "did not wantcommended ".
LIKE EVERYONE complimented.
Well if everyone likes praised INCLUDING WOMEN,why do not we praise them?
But his praise is not praise that makes usseem to be * very * need or NEEDY.
Therefore, we MUST  first know which PRAISE
that REDUCE VALUE, and which ones PRAISE can
increase the VALUE ... 
If you have all praised the women but theirrespond to mediocre or even TURN-OFF,mean your praise is  WRONG praise.
 
Then How the RIGHT?
It is a concept that I gave the name "The Artof complimenting Woman ".
FIRST THING you should notice is BRAINyou can feel the energy of a negative or positiveBRAIN others who are communicating with you.In other words, your suspicions could DIRECTfeel if you catch from people NEGATIVE EMOTIONSothers who talk with you via BODYLANGUAGE, facial expression and intonation of his voice.
Women's 10x more sensitive in reading body languageand EMOTIONS. Therefore, women can FEELif your compliment is praise or compliments HONESTwho WANT to get something from him.
Examples of praise WANT to get something:
Men: You're really pretty cool ... [With a smiling faceand waiting for a reply from the woman]
Woman: Thanks ... [Give answers because they FEELawaited the answer]
Viewed from the example above, the man said "you are beautifulreally deh "and then gave a smile and faceWAITING for the woman answers ... it signifies the MaleGETTING COMPLIMENTS to give gratitudefrom the Women and TRY to make the woman becomesLIKE with the man.
That * SIGNS * that the man giving praise forGETTING something, namely a sense of gratitude from theThe woman, who he thought was a "way" to makeLIKE a woman with him.
But not so, It's called PRAISE takes charge.
For those of you who are working, try to notice whenYour boss came and chatted with theemployees, see who's the Boss employee PRAISE need to pay ...
Well then how about an HONEST PRAISE?
Example 1:
You: You're pretty cool ... [with a serious face, halfsmile and NOT expect answers nothing]
And without waiting for an answer, straight talk aboutMore ...
Example 2:
Girl: Would you please grab the file please ...  
You: [help the woman] is the file ... [half-smile andwithout the NEED to go straight from the word thanks from Female]
Example 3:
The situation was dinner
Girl: [spoon fell] yah spoon fall ...
You: [take a spoon and give it to the woman]This ... careful next time [serious face, half smilesand NOT expect the words to thank and directtalk about something else]
See a difference?
Things that seem the same but VERY-VERY DIFFERENT.
If you give an honest compliment, then the responseto be provided is RESPECT for WomenThat is called BEING A Gentlemen. If youPRAISE want, GUARDING, or loved HELPINGLadies, DO NO NEED that his gratitudeor wanted something from him. Be a PE-Mujiwith a sincere compliment without desire reversedyour praise.
Well then what if you PRAISE with HONESTbut the response of women "assume" you are NOT PRAISEwith HONEST and just wanted something from him?
Example 1:
You: You're beautiful today ... [Honest]Girl: Yeah ... already many are saying anyway, anyways I'vehave a guy who often praise me ... [Take your complimentas a tool for making the same she LIKE you]
Example 2: This  happened by one of my best friend ... that time we werebe in a club and a woman who * is not too* looks beautiful standing alone and my best friend sayhello:
A: eh, are you longer own? It is Better  we chat together.....[This honest invitation from my friend who just wants to be bersosialand does not intend to show love for the woman.]
Girl: oh that? Are you want to DANCE? Yes there already! PLEASE do it your OWN! [The woman thinks that's just my friend Preamble which ends want to invites the girl DANCE]
Example 3:
You: I really like you ... cool ... [honest]
Girl: Yes! Whatever lah...!
[Become a big headache because praised and dismissed the praise of honest]
Well then what we MUST do when things like this happen?
Do something called PUSH-pull
Examples of cases back and forth according to the above:
Example 1:
You: You're beautiful today ... [honest]
Girl: Yes already many are saying, anyways I've had a guy whoI often praise kok ... [consider you as a compliment tools to make the same she LIKE you]
>> YOU: Oh nice cool ... so I  don't need to praise you again!
Example 2:
A: uh, whether you're alone? we better talk
 [This honest invitation from my friend who justwant bersosial only and do not intend to showliking to the woman.]
Girl: oh that? Do you want to DANCE? Yes there already! PLEASE do it your  OWN! [The woman thinks that's just my friend Preamble which ends want to invites the girlDANCE]
>> A: lho? you THINK  i just want to DANCE with you?
Girl: [nervous and embarrassed] mmm ... no!
A: yes already, good you finally realize..  I just want to chat ... by the way, what is your name?
--- The rest can be no doubt anymore ---
Example 3:
You: I really like it you ... cool ... [honest]
Girl: yea! Whatever la! [Become a big headache becausepraised and dismissed the praise of honest]
>> YOU: hahaha apparently ... I pull my greeting deh ...
PUSH-pull clay how to work?
You Praising> Respondnya Good> Forward Praising
You Praising> Respondnya bitchy> Give the "little"Punishment with "a little" Mocked
That is BASIC from "The Art of complimentingWoman, "now let us discuss in more depth.
Remember activating Broca's region and RectacularExisting system in the human brain? The point is not to do somethingby CONSTANT, but always had to change and the TAK changeUNPREDICTABLE.
So when giving a compliment, do this:
Praise, praise, praise, ridicule, ridicule, praise, ridicule, praise, praise,taunted, jeered etc.
Do PRAISE continuously ... and at the praise,make sure you PRAISE QUALITY.
What kind of a compliment of quality?
We will discuss the time on the other.
Then when you give a little derision butANGRY him what to do? Let's see:

  Was the woman really ANGRY?
  Or * just * give to your TEST?
If he's REALLY mad, then you are WRONGtaunting him. Ridicule that I do not mean * insult *but it is a known Tools* Flirt *
Flirting is * taunts * which can growCHEMISTRY.
Then How can I flirt with the truth?
We discuss the time on the other.