"Anyone can be angry. Anger is easy. However, angry at the right people, with the appropriate level, at the time appropriate, for the right purpose, and with cheese, it is not easy. " - Aristotle, The Nicomachean Ethics.
Able to master emotions, often those underestimate the problem. In fact, intelligence alone is not delivers enough person reaches success.
Rather, good emotional control becomes an important factor determining success in one's life.
Emotional intelligence is an illustration mentality of someone who is smart in analyze, plan and solve problems, ranging from mild to complex.
With this intelligence, one can understand, recognize, and select their qualities as human beings. People who have emotional intelligence can understand others well and make decisions wisely.
Moreover, this intelligence-related closely to how a person can applying what she learned about happiness, love and interacting with others.
He also knows his life purpose, and will responsible for all matters happened in her life as evidence high emotional intelligence owned.
More focused on emotional intelligence achieving a successful life * Does not look *.
Success can be achieved when someone could make a deal involving emotions, feelings and interaction with others.
Evidently, the achievement of success in material does not guarantee satisfaction someone.
In 1990, Emotional Intelligence (which also known as the "EQ"), introduced through the world market.
Stated that a person's ability to handle and use emotions appropriately in any form interaction is more needed than intelligence (IQ) of a person.
Now, let's see, how emotions can change all the limitations become extraordinary things ....
A rich millionaire in America States, Donald Trump, is an example conscientious in this regard. In the year 1980 until 1990, known as Trump enough real estate tycoon successful, with personal wealth estimated at one billion U.S. dollars.
Two books were written at the height of success career, namely "The Art of the Deal and Surviving at the Top ". But the road through which Trump did not always smooth ...
You remember the depression that hit the world at the end of the year 1990? At that time property stock prices tumbled even participate drastically. Until the time last night, Trump's life becomes very opposite.
Trump is highly dependent on This should bear the business property loans totaling 900 million U.S. Dollars! Even the World Bank has predicted bankruptcy.
Some of his friends who suffered the fate Similar thinking that this is the end their lives, to really end her life by way of suicide self.
Here the emotional intelligence Trump really tested. How not when she expects sympathy from former his wife, he actually asked to provide all remaining property in lieu of loss of their divorce.
People who are regarded as a friend Nearby went away granted. Great cause support for Trump to despair and give up on life. However it did not commit.
Trump precisely this view that opportunity to work and change circumstances. Although he was financially had lost everything, but there "Intangible assets" that remain owned.
Yes, Trump has the experience and strong business understanding, which is far more precious than all his property which ever!
What happens next?
Fantastic, six months later Trump 've managed to make a deal largest in the history of business.
Three years later, Trump could earn a profit of U.S. $ 3 Billion. He also managed to write his latest book which was given back Search for "The Art of The Comeback."
In this book tells Trump what happened to her bankruptcy it makes it more wisely, strong and focused than ever before.
Indeed, he thinks, if only disaster It does not happen, then he would not ever know his true friends and not will make it more rich than previously. Incredible is not it? :-)
Emotional intelligence gives a person determination to rise from failure, also bring strength to the someone to stand up fear.
Not the same way as intelligence brain or IQ, emotional intelligence present on every person & can be developed.
Here are some tips on how to honed emotional intelligence:
1. Always live with courage.
Exercise and dare to try new things will provide a variety of experiences and
open mind with a variety of other possibilities in life.
2. Always responsible for everything.
This will be a way to be gain the trust of others and not easy to control us
surrender. "Being accountable is being dependable "
3. Dare to come out of your comfort zone.
Trying to get out of your comfort zone will allows us to explore many pp.
4. Recognizing the fear and try to to deal with it.
Doing this will build a sense of confident and able to guarantee
there is definitely something that all solution.
5. Be humble.
Willing to admit mistakes in life. it can improve self-esteem us.
So, Overcome your emotional intelligence
Because emotions are one of the important factors that could You control the route to success and also enjoy a colorful life. :-)